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September 5, 2006

Hello again! Just another day in paradise here. We are blessed beyond any measure of mortal man. Ruby continues to amaze us. We should have anticipated the quick turnaround in her personality, but I suppose almost three years dulls the memory. Jada continues to amaze us daily, so perhaps that helped dull our senses as to what we should expect from Ruby as well.

This morning’s feeding was so different than the tale of misery and woe dished out to you in yesterday’s journal entry regarding Ruby’s first feeding. To tell you the truth, and I believe the picture to the left will tell what even a thousand words might fail to convey, I think we can all easily see what the problem was yesterday… I was not feeding our little angel.

Sheila here…Yeah, he feeds her three bites and has Jada taking the pictures while I go answer the phone. No kidding, I’d say she took 35 pictures of those 3 bites. :]
OK …back to Richard. I’m going to bed.

Don’t pay any attention to that statement. Seeing is believing!

We had some more official Chinese government meetings today. After each meeting, it is customary to give the official a small gift. The gift giving is very un-ceremonial and the recipient may not even know who presented them with what gift. All the gifts from all the families are piled together and the gifts are not opened at that time.

On our way back to the hotel, three of the families stopped off at the Garden Hotel to see the Western doctor who practices there. Only another family and us remained on the bus back to the hotel. The other family had actually been to the clinic in our hotel earlier in the morning and received a checkup and medicine for their little girl.

During the bus ride to the Civil Affairs Office, we invited the rest of the families to our room later in the afternoon for a small birthday party for Ruby. Since all the girls’ birthdays are so close, we turned it into a five girl birthday party. Two of the girls’ birthdays were today, one tomorrow, one day after tomorrow, and the other one is the 12th. We had some cake and soda and some good old fashioned fellowship.

Later in the evening, we all met for dinner at Lucy’s Restaurant, a small place that serves American food, as well as other types. It is well-known in the Chinese adoption community since it is so close to the White Swan Hotel.

Okay, so there is the synopsis of another day here in Guangzhou. If you haven’t noticed, I have tried extremely hard to NOT discuss the heat and humidity here. Since the babies are not used air conditioning, we even had to turn the AC almost off in the room. Not good for me, but that is what is best for the baby.

I’m not sure what all we have to do tomorrow. All I know is that we have to meet in the hotel lobby at 9:00 to be hauled off to another official government meeting. Hopefully, I will be able to report what we did in tomorrow’s journal entry. So, enjoy the pictures and notice how our baby is changing right before your eyes.

Richard, Sheila, Jada and baby Ruby

Comments
Happy Birthday Ruby. Hurry home and we will see you soon.
Posted by: Tim and Pam on September 5, 2006 at 06:03 A.M.
Is it not amazing how they adapt so quickly?! Ruby is just glowing. I am so glad that you got to celebrate her first birthday with her. My favorite picture is the one of her looking in the mirror. She is just beautiful! Thanks for sharing.
Posted by: Teresa Rasnake on September 5, 2006 at 06:13 A.M.
Richard & Sheila,

Congratulations! Ruby is absolutely beautiful. I know you can't wait to get home with both of your gorgeous daughters. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers!
Posted by: Lisa & Charles Bond on September 5, 2006 at 06:19 A.M.
Happy Birthday Ruby, I am so glad you got to spend your 1st birthday with your forever family. I hope you are having so much fun with your Mom, Dad, and big sis Jada. I can't wait to meet you on Sept 14.
Posted by: Halle Grace on September 5, 2006 at 06:29 A.M.
The pictures are awesome! Happy Birthday, sweet Ruby! It is truly amazing how quickly personalities appear with that special love a family brings. I absolutely adore the mirror peek-a-boo picture - her smile is breathtaking! We're praying for you all and can't wait to see you back in Kingsport!
Love...
Posted by: Joel, Donna & Eliza on September 5, 2006 at 06:34 A.M.
Richard and Shelia, you guys look so good. Ruby seems to be wonderful. I am so glad your trip has been good so far. Seeing all the pictures and reading the posts bring back so many fond memories of our trip to China. Enjoy the rest of your trip.
Posted by: Dustin & Michelle Williams on September 5, 2006 at 06:37 A.M.
Posted by: Michael and Starla on September 5, 2006 at 06:41 A.M.
Happy 1st Birthday Ruby!!! You are so beautiful and we can't wait to see you. Your smile says it all. We love you guys and are praying for you.

PS - Andrew keeps telling us that you are shopping in China. He can't wait to see Jada and meet Ruby.
Posted by: Byron, Lisa, and Andrew on September 5, 2006 at 06:47 A.M.
Happy Birthday Ruby. What an awesome gift God has given you, a family to call your own forever and ever. We can't wait to see you home. You have an absolutely beautiful smile. Take care of your Mommy and Daddy for us.
Posted by: Michael and Starla on September 5, 2006 at 06:53 A.M.
Oh my goodness! We only have to wait nine more days to see 'our' Ruby and to finally see Jada as a big sister!! We are so excited we can't stand it - Happy first Birthday, little Ruby-you are just beautiful. We love all of you!
Posted by: Adina on September 5, 2006 at 06:53 A.M.
Hey Lanes...I'm at school, but just HAD to come see "my" baby girl!! Happy Birthday Ruby!! I love you! She is SO beautiful! I can't believe how much she's changed in a day. Love the huge grin. She's just so incredibly beautiful. Seeya!
Posted by: Brittany on September 5, 2006 at 07:07 A.M.
WOW!!! Your daughters are wonderful. One just as precious and beautiful as the other. Isn't God amazing. I know how much you wanted to spen Ruby's birthday with her and I am glad that you were able to. You will turn around a couple of times and be sending them to High School as I have done this year. Time passes so quick. Anyway, congrats and thankyou for sharing your dream with us. It makes all of us appreciate what God has given us. SAfe Travels.
Julia
Posted by: julia on September 5, 2006 at 07:08 A.M.
Happy Birthday Ruby!!!!It's awesome that you get to spend your 1st birthday in China. I can not wait to see you! From Bubby,Peyton
Posted by: Peyton on September 5, 2006 at 07:25 A.M.
WOW! What a difference a day makes! And WHAT a SMILE!!!
Happy Birthday Baby Ruby!
Love
The Corrigans
Amy, Doug, Kyra and Isaac
Posted by: Amy Corrigan on September 5, 2006 at 07:32 A.M.
Ruby has the most beautiful smile. She is just coming alive right before our eyes. The pictures are amazing! Love,Laura
Posted by: Laughlin family on September 5, 2006 at 07:33 A.M.
Hello to the newly extended Lane family. I can't begin to imagine how excited you are. Ruby is a little angel. Thank you for sharing her and your story. Congratulations on your new addition!!
Posted by: Sarah McGaha on September 5, 2006 at 07:54 A.M.
Richard--Sheila----Boy what a party-i'm sorry but Ruby was the prettiest baby there --ha ha---i'm just kidding they were all pretty---Richard you are right --she is already changing--she is just getting more brautiful all the time----hurry home we miss you ALL verry much--God bless--and we love you ALL very much--can't wait to see you--opal
Posted by: Opal Ragsdale on September 5, 2006 at 08:40 A.M.
Congratulations on the addition to your family. Ruby is so sweet and Jada looks like she is doing a great job in her role as big sister. We pray you have a safe trip home.---Teneva
Posted by: David, Teneva, Derek, and Cameron Phillips on September 5, 2006 at 09:15 A.M.
Happy 1st Birthday Ruby! I Love You!

Aunt Vickie
Posted by: Aunt Vickie on September 5, 2006 at 09:33 A.M.
She is beautiful, just like Jada. Have a safe trip home.
We will be praying for you.
We can't wait to see her in person......
Posted by: Greg, Thelma, Kristen, Rachel on September 5, 2006 at 10:35 A.M.
Happy Birthday Ruby! Congratulations to the entire family! I have really enjoyed following your journal.
We have an LID of 5/17/06!

Kim, dh Max, ds Tyler, ds colby, ds Nicholas
/thestallings
Posted by: Kim on September 5, 2006 at 12:48 P.M.
Happy 1st Birthday Ruby!!!! Sheila & Richard, she is so precious. What a beautiful smile and those eyes. Wow!! Have a great trip and look forward to meeting her soon.

The Sheltons
Posted by: Kim, George, Tyler & Caitlyn on September 5, 2006 at 12:59 P.M.
Happy Birthday Ruby!! I love the huge smile on Ruby's face. She is so beautiful. Since Jada is such a good photograher we may need to borrow her when we go to China ;>) I am so happy both your daughters are doing so well. God is so good!!
Posted by: Gloria Dixon on September 5, 2006 at 01:28 P.M.
Richard and Sheila,

Ruby is just gorgeous - and that smile!! My favorite aunt was Ruby! She was a real gem too. Praying for a great remainder of the trip, and the trip home as well. Keep the pics coming!!

God bless,
Regina (Also with LHAA, LID 3/20/09 - oh so much longer to wait!!!)
Posted by: Regina Bishop on September 5, 2006 at 01:36 P.M.
Richard, Sheila, Jada and Ruby,
Happy 1st birthday to Ruby! What an awesome gift for Ruby-to be united with her "forever" family and have Christian parents and sister to grow up with! You have 2 beautiful daughters! Wishing you a safe remainder of the trip and a safe trip home.
Posted by: Joni and Bob Waldron on September 5, 2006 at 02:49 P.M.
Happy Birthday Ruby. What a joyful day it has been and to see how blessed you all are. She fits right in the family. What a wonderful God we serve. May your time in China be the start of the best years of your life. May God Bless each of you and we can't wait to see you when you return.
Mike, Tammy and Lydia Collins
Posted by: The Collins Family on September 5, 2006 at 03:00 P.M.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY RUBY!! Richard & Sheila, thank you so much for taking the time to do this website & allowing us to share in your joy! We love you all & can't wait until you get home.
Posted by: Terina, Ashton, & Caitlyn on September 5, 2006 at 03:47 P.M.
Happy Birthday sweet Ruby!!!
The pictures bring back so many memories!! I can't wait to see you all on the 14...still praying for you!! Love, Delinda
Posted by: Delinda on September 5, 2006 at 04:32 P.M.
Happy Birthday Ruby!!

Love,
Billy, Gina & Kealee
Posted by: Anonymous on September 5, 2006 at 05:32 P.M.
What a changed face I saw apart from the photos from yesterday. Happy, happy, happy. She's a baby-doll . . . just like her older sister! God bless you all - enjoy your bonding time together and have a safe trip home. See you on the 14th.
Posted by: Uncle Randy on September 5, 2006 at 05:41 P.M.
Man-o-man....She's just a little beauty! Can't get over it.
Posted by: Brittany on September 5, 2006 at 06:24 P.M.
She IS sooooooo beautiful! THOSE EYES! What a doll! HAPPY BDAY!

Posted by: Sonya on September 5, 2006 at 07:01 P.M.
Happy Birthday Ruby! What a difference a day makes. Love that smile. I can see joy on each of your faces. She is a doll. Can't wait to see all of you in person.
Posted by: Joy & Danielle Peters on September 5, 2006 at 07:28 P.M.
What a beautiful family God has blessed you with! Ruby is so pretty just like her big sister. Have a safe trip. We can't wait to see you!
Posted by: Pat and Patricia Kilgore on September 5, 2006 at 07:42 P.M.
Happy Happy Birthday sweet Ruby! It looks like you had a wonderful day. You sure know how to smile girl. Your whole body lights up when you show that mouth full of teeth. And those eyes....don't get me going on those incredible eyes!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't wait to meet you in person next week. Sam really wants to meet her new playmate too but she is a little bit jealous that you can already crawl and she is still 'thinking' about it. We are praying for all of you and your whole travel group. Isn't God AMAZING!!!!!
We love you,
Tom, Barb, Hannah and Sam
Posted by: Barb on September 5, 2006 at 07:44 P.M.